The Golden Cup and Disciplined Athlete


2 Timothy 2:20-22

20 In a wealthy home some utensils are made of gold and silver, and some are made of wood and clay. The expensive utensils are used for special occasions, and the cheap ones are for everyday use. 21 If you keep yourself pure, you will be a special utensil for honorable use. Your life will be clean, and you will be ready for the Master to use you for every good work.

22 Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.

 2 Timothy 2:24-25

24 A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people. 25 Gently instruct those who oppose the truth.


Paul gives us two pictures a bowl and a baller. A utensil and a someone who is disciplined in running.

Both have the quality of being used for honorable tasks. A utensil made of gold has gone through extensive purification to become fine and fit for noble use. Likewise, a runner knows when to run, how to run, and where to run.

Keep Yourself Pure, Run from Lustful Stimulation (any kind of greed that might incline your heart), Pursue Righteous Living (pursue Jesus, His example, teaching, and the Holy Spirit), Pursue Faithfulness, Love and Peace (when we have a love and faith in Christ their is a reciprocating love and a peace that encompasses all anxiety, your confidence is in Him), Have Companionship with others who call on the Lord (breathing life into one another, building up and encouraging in the Lord, there is beauty in the community of the brethren [decided to get old school in my speech, but really, when a group of believers are together, its no longer about the Mariners or the wind — the topic is Christ and His devotion to us and others. His gentle pursuit of us, His thoughtful beckoning of our hearts that draws us to Him, His

Because of Him, we are then able to to Gently and Patiently lead and listen and guide others.


Father, help me to see how to pursue you and chase you more vehemently. Help me to lean on you and depend on you. And help me to see the opportunities I have in being more patient with others, kind and gentle, and how to hear your voice of correction in my life that I may live in your will not mine. Help me Father to be used by you like a golden cup for your noble purposes and like an athlete running to you, from his weaknesses, help me to pursue you with all that I am. Amen.


Refreshing Sweetness

Philippians 1:11

May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ—for this will bring much glory and praise to God.

 Observation / Application

There is fruit in our salvation. I like that they call it fruit. Fruit is usually sweet and tasty. Its refreshing and often a treat. Unaltered, fruit is fantastic the way it is, I’m glad this is the word picture Paul used to express what God does in us as we truly walk as followers of Christ.

The Fruit of our Salvation is the ‘Righteous character’. What is that? This tasty, refreshing, sweet taste we leave in people’s mouths is a character produced as we walk out our lives with Jesus.

As we live this out, we bring much glory to God and because of it people will be attracted to Him. Refreshing Sweetness.

I love how Eugene Peterson puts it in his paraphrased, devotional interpretation of Scriptures:

“So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover’s life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.” [MSG 1:9-11]


Jesus, help me to live this out. Help me to allow life’s pressures to create in me a character that is sweet and tasty to those that live around me; my wife and family and the people I entrusted to lead. Amen.

Awkward Gains

Have you ever been hurt by someone and didn’t say anything?


Matthew 18:15 “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.”


Jesus is pro-confrentation. Not because He likes fights, but because He lives for true/authentic relationships! There is nothing better for a relationship than for healthy confrontation. Jesus is saying, ‘go tell him his fault’, ‘go tell him how you’ve been hurt’.

Our culture says ‘No, I don’t want the drama. I’ll just let it go.’ But do we just let it go? Pretty soon, you’re telling your mama and the she tells everyone and drama spreads from your mama!

Or you don’t say anything, but you end up placing a wedge between you and the other person and sooner or later you’ll find yourselves drifting and other person may have no clue that they hurt you. [Sad thing is, they may know they hurt you, but since you didn’t say anything you loose credibility with them (not that it matters because, they’re punks for not apologizing for wronging you)]

Jesus, on the other hand, He says that if you confront that person and he listens, then you will gain a brother. A more real relationship happens. Borne through the process of forgiveness and understanding, humility and acceptance. Awkward Gains.

Let’s go for the Awkward Gain! If they don’t listen, then you know where they stand, and they know where you stand with them. No more pretending or acting like everything is ok.


Jesus, help me to pursue those awkward gains as they arise. Give me courage to confront in loving way, that I may gain a brother. This ultimately reflects You, thank You for Your example and Way. Amen.

Disturbing, Yet Full of Grace

Everyone has asked the question “If God is so good, why does He allow pain and suffering to exist?”

Today’s reading gives us one look at answering part of this multi-faceted question: Matthew 13:24-30

The Parable of the Weeds

24 He put another parable before them, saying, “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, 25 but while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat and went away. 26 So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. 27 And the servants of the master of the house came and said to him, ‘Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?’ 28 He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ So the servants said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ 29 But he said, ‘No, lest in gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them. 30 Let both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, Gather the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.’ ”

Jesus uses this parable of weeds and wheat to show us humanity. This is disturbing in the sense that here we see two types of people. God sees us and determines/judges whether we are wheat or a weed. One simple way to treat this text is to ask yourself, “Which am I?” It’s too simple of a treatment. There is a deeper understanding of God and the world around us seen in this text.
This text answers some important questions. ‘Why not just get rid of the weeds? Why are there weeds in the first place?’
When the weeds are young they look too much like the wheat, so uprooting them is not an option. On the other hand, when they are fully grown they are too intertwined with the wheat that to remove the weeds at that time would mean that the wheat too would be lost. So, the response is wait until the time of ‘harvest’. In this case the day of judgement. Disturbing, right?
This passage shows us that God will not purge evil, otherwise hurting the ‘good’ in a considerable way.
Think about it like this…
We are all a little bad. Right? Admit it. We’ve all ‘sinned’. We’ve all possibly lied, or taken when we shouldn’t have, held a grudge, and the list can keep going. We are all a little bad.
If God were to purge ALL evil from this world, He’d have to get rid of us all. Yet, God loves you and I dearly!
This offers tremendous HOPE! Not only do we grow in our patience as we love and wait till the ‘day of harvest’. We also get to see from God’s vantage point… somewhat.  We get to see what He sees, and love what He loves and be on Mission in the same vein of Jesus. We can also see how amazingly Good God is verses, how evil evil can be… not only in us but as a whole [this helps answer the question ‘Why are there weeds in the first place?’ — there are other ways to answer this: freedom of will, God didn’t create pre-programmed puppets that say ‘I love you God’, thus the option not to love Him and to  love self which quickly leads to greed and inward focused living – evil].
Most importantly we see how amazing God’s Grace really is… He is patient and waits and works and woos and relentlessly loves us! Helping us want to love Him and those around us, helping us weed the gardens of our heart.
He does that by sending us the Holy Spirit to work in us, guiding us and leading us.  Let’s be open to Him!
Jesus, help me to always be thankful for your goodness, to be attentive to your Spirit and to be sensitive to His leading. Give us strength to live by Your Word. Help us to honor You in all we say, think and do! Amen.

3 Things to Newlife

I’ve been watching how people in our church love, serve, give, laugh, and grow. Here are 3 things I’d like to comment about and encourage you in.

1.   The Barnabas Factor

Look up Barnabas! He was the encourager of Paul when he was converted to Christianity! Barnabas was a key catalyst to Paul’s credibility in ministry (Acts 9:27-31).  Let’s continue to build the Barnabas factor at Newlife. Here is what I’ve seen many of you at Newlife do:

  • You are Encouragers: You Breath Life Into People    Proverbs 10:11  “The words of the godly are a life-giving fountain; the words of the wicked conceal violent intentions.”
  • You Speak Highly of Each Other:  Word comes back to me about ‘OUR Church’ and all I hear is people speaking highly of ‘YOUR Church.” This means that some of you Barnabases are speaking highly of YOUR family. Keep it up.
Those that are weak in their faith and identity in Christ will often be the ones that tear down and speak negatively/harshly/belittling, either at an/or to others.  But those that have the courage to see what Jesus sees in others will always build others up and love others even when it is difficult. Let’s be strong in faith, identity in Christ and lets breath life into others!

2.   On the Faith Journey with ‘Simon, Paul and Timothy’ –>  Best Formula For Growth

  • Do you have a Paul in your life? The Pauls in your life are the ones that have gone ahead spiritually. Followers of Jesus that have ‘been there, done that’. Men and women of the faith that can challenge you in your faith journey. Pauls that will listen to you, but not afraid to speak the truth to you. A Spiritual Mother (for ladies) or a Father (for the men) that will help guide you and pray for you. You can be the Timothy to someone who is like a Paul. Do you have at least one Paul in your life? Let them know it! (It’ll bless them to pieces!!)
  • Do you have a Simon in your life? These are the men and women in your life that are peers to you. Same place in life, learning the same things as you, process the same things you’re processing. Who is a Simon in your life? That can relate to you and both of you can encourage one another and keep each other accountable? You gotta have a Simon!
  • Do you have a Timothy in your life?  It doesn’t matter how much you know there will always be someone that knows more than you do, and it doesn’t matter how little you know, there will always be someone who knows less. Those are your Timothy’s. People in the Journey with Jesus that can learn from you. Who is your Timothy? Paul poured his life into Timothy like a father would. Who are you pouring into, what you know about Jesus?

An Amazing Formula for Growth!

3.   Testimony

What do you say when someone asks you about your faith? Is it tough to articulate? I bet it might be since our faith is in everlasting flux (growing, week to week). In the next few weeks I’m going to do my best to teach you how to share your faith or ‘testimony’ with people. Your own personal journey with God that helps people see what you see and possibly help those listening start their journey.

Be thinking about your walk, your story and how that might help others get to know God!! What’s Your Testimony! 

Not for the Timid

1 Samuel 14:6-7

Jonathan said to the young man who carried his armor. “Come, let us go over to the garrison of these uncircumcised. It may be that the LORD will work for us. for nothing can hinder the LORD from saving by many or by few. And his armor-bearer said to him. “Do all that is in your heart. Do as you wish. Behold, I am with you heart and soul.”


The Israelites are severely outnumbered by the Philistines. Jonathan and his armor-bearer are traveling by night scouting their oppressors. As you read the story, it happens as Jonathan says; they route the Philistines! Here are a few observations we can pick up on and then apply to our lives.

  • Jonathan has an Audacious, Intrepid Faith. God can do anything!  God + you = Majority
  • Jonathan’s Faith was Quickly Followed by Action.
  • Jonathan’s Action was Modeled, respected by the Armor-Bearer
  • The Armor-Bearer is willing to die alongside Jonathan; this speaks volumes about both men.


Here’s how this can apply to us.

We face countless ‘enemies’ of our hearts, time, emotions, resources and love. Often, I know you feel alone! [Takes one to know one]. Jonathan gives us a great example! In the face of calamity, he trusts that God will deliver them from peril and chronic oppression (for some of us depression). The question for us; Do You Believe and Have the Faith that God Can Bring (Heal, Restore, Redeem) You Out of Your Difficulty?

Jonathan believed and he did something about it. Don’t stand Idle, GO! God is with you. Cover that Audacious Faith with Audacious Prayer, that Moves You Into Audacious Action!

The cool thing is that as you move in your faith, others will see that and be inspired by your life that they might do the same thing. They face great ‘enemies’ too! Why not join together as you march against the things that come against you!


Jesus, help us to have faith in You! You’re much larger than the circumstances we face! Holy Spirit guide us as we navigate through life. Jesus, help us to always have you at the center of our lives; you conquered death, and because of that so can we! Amen.

A New Romance

I’ve often heard and even enjoyed the word BIBLE as a quippy acronym for Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth. Although catchy, I don’t think it gives a good definition of what the Bible is. For one it’s anything but basic. Secondly it’s not all about the preparation of leaving earth and thirdly, the Bible is not a set of instructions.

The Bible is not a 1-2-3, A-Z book for life. I’d say it’s more like an everlasting relational time piece, a love letter that never ends. That and more. I see it as an invitation to commitment with the eternal King. Simple, right? (Note really).

I do see it like peering into a new romance that keeps going.

I remember when I first met my wife Laura. When we met, how did it go? Did we craft out each step of the relationship, like putting together a BBQ or a shed from Lowes? No.

We slowly became aware of one another. Likes, dislikes, passions, dreams, goals, joys, memories, hurts, humor, quirks, disfunction’s, talents, weaknesses, strengths, …

And we learned to love one another. I think that this is the same way it is with God. We acquaint ourselves with the God of our souls. Jesus. Through His Word we learn about Him and His love for us. All the while He (the Holy Spirit) is walking with us. It’s a new romance. Sounds girly and kind of strange to think of God that way. But Romance can be seen in different ways: Adventure, Song, Story, and Quest.

Go on that Journey, take that Challenge and Taste and See that the Lord is Good!

Before you are king…


[1 Samuel 8-10, 2 Corinthians 10]

1 Samuel 9:22-24  Then Samuel took Saul and his young man and brought them into the hall and gave them a place at the head of those who had been invited, who were about thirty persons. And Samuel said to the cook, “Bring the portion I gave you, of which I said to you, ‘Put it aside.'” So the cook took up the leg and what was on it and set them before Saul. And Samuel said, “See, what was kept is set before you. Eat, because it was kept for you until the hour appointed, that you might eat with the guests.” So Saul ate with Samuel that day.


This seems like an obscure passage. But in it lies an important truth for us all.

Saul will be the first king over Israel. He will soon be anointed and pronounced king by Samuel the lead prophet of the land, in the presence of many, but this meal with these thirty people is the core of what Saul will become or what God is calling him to become. Samuel does something really important here, he makes sure that Saul receives for his dinner the leg (“So the cook took up the leg and why was on it…”). The ‘leg’ is meant and set aside only for priests. Samuel was making a very important statement here.

He is essentially saying, ‘Saul, before you become king, you must be a priest.’ This is not in the catholic sense, but ‘you must become first a priest, a man of God in order to lead well.’ Who you become on the inside determines how well you lead on the outside.


Anyone of us can relate to this! We all lead people to some degree, in our homes, in our careers, in our neighborhoods, in our church, etc. Before we take upon ourselves the crown of our leadership platform, we are to take on the cross reflecting the king of kings. Before we lead people, we must first realize that we are under greater authority, Jesus. He is King over us and if we are too lead we must be priests [men and women of God, who represent Him, who resemble Him, who are reincarnate Him in us]. That is the role of a priest, to represent God and as leaders in any capacity, we are to represent Him there in the same manner. Who you become on the inside determines how you lead; your family, business, relationships, anything on the outside.


Jesus, before I am father, husband, friend, pastor or anything else. Before I am, I am priest — a representation of You. Help me Jesus to be like You, to lead like You, to Love like You, to laugh like You, to have joy like You, to have compassion like You, and to daily cling to You. Give me strength, hope, boldness, and courage to live this way. Amen.

Honor Gives Itself To Honor


Ruth 2:12-13

The LORD repay you for what have done, and a full reward be given you by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wing you have come to take regufe.” Then she said, “Ihave found favor in your eyes my lord, for you have comforted me and spoken kindly to your servant, though I am not one of your servants.”


These two are smitten over each other!

He loves her loyalty, love, determination, and humility. And Boaz is admired for his leadership, strength, character, who values her virtue of honoring Naomi.

That’s the easy observation! Here is the principle to grab. Honor, honors honor. It reciprocates. Honor finds itself and really relishes in itself. Honor gives itself back to honor.  If I honor you and keep doing so, sooner or later you’ll honor right back. Honor, honoring itself is inevitable.

Honor is key! Part of a strong DNA in an organization ESPECIALLY in a church, is a strong DNA of HONORING one another. My goal as a pastor is that we all GET this, I as a man, father, husband, friend, neighbor, and co-worker I MUST LIVE this out! To Honor ALL people around me! This is a tough exhibition,  because we are always so into ourselves. I battle myself all the time. The goal is to honor others, like Christ does the church. He died for the Church (His bride). Therefore, my goal should be like Christ; to honor my wife, family  and people around me like Christ does. Sacrificially, patiently, lovingly, gently, unconditionally, with grace, truth and wisdom.


Jesus, help me to ALWAYS honor others, that they might some day honor You! Amen.

Bringing Salty Back


Mark 9:49-50

49 “For everyone will be tested with fire.  50 Salt is good for seasoning. But if it loses its flavor, how do you make it salty again? You must have the qualities of salt among yourselves and live in peace with each other.”

Observation / Application

Much like today, people in Jesus’ time used salt to purify things and to preserve foods. Also, like today, when purifying metals they would use fire to bring out the impurities and preserve silver or gold without impurities.

The process of making something salty was a good thing, it still is. The process of purifying metals was a good thing. it still is. What Jesus was saying in verses 49 and 50 is that; as fiery trials come at us, they will test us and in essence become more pure through the process as we walk with Jesus. And that as we are purified and preserved by ‘salt’ we will be something that bring life and hope in a world that isn’t so ‘salty’.

I need to continually allow the One who can purify us and make us ‘salty’ do His work I may be an example of Christ in this world


Jesus, help me to be dependent on you when trials arise. Give me strength to choose you and your strength and not my own understanding. As life hits me, help me to respond in humility and patience because through those tough times you purify and preserve us. Thank you Lord for your grace and wisdom. Amen.